Preference Night

Dear Potential New Member,

“Our greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.”

One thing that makes this week so difficult is the fact that you can’t really determine what will happen. You can’t choose what houses will invite you back, so you don’t really have total control of what house you will end up spending so much time in for the next four years. It is overwhelming. I am sure you have felt the stress about not being in control many times before this, and you will feel it plenty of times during your college experience.

Let go of all the stress strangling your heart and rest in the peace of knowing that your sorority does not define your identity and experiences in college. You are so much more than the letters you wear and when you accept that truth, tonight is a lot less scary and a lot more fun and relaxing. 

Sincerely, 

A Panhellenic Woman